Healing a broken heart from love gone bad? All country western songs titles aside, this is a hard thing to have to overcome. Take heart though, it really is possible to overcome the hurt, anger and resentment that you may feel after a breakup. It will take time and it will take a strong desire on your part to actually feel better and get back to living your life.
I know that last sentence may sound odd. You may be saying to yourself, 'Well that's stupid, of course I want to get over my pain'. In a way though many people actually hold on to their pain. They may not mean to and they may not realize they are doing it, but they do it nonetheless. If you do not realize that's what you're doing then it can be really hard to overcome.
Make sure that you are not so hurt that you simply are afraid to try again. If you are, you really should consider finding some help. Life is too short to live in fear of being hurt. You can never really be happy and fulfilled if you are not willing to open your heart up.
A therapist can help you work through all your hurt and pain and help you find ways to heal them so that some day you can move on and find love again.
While you are working on healing the hurt, make sure that you take the time to live. Now isn't a good time to think about dating but it is a great time to spend time with your friends doing the things that you used to enjoy doing. Remember when you were single? what types of things did you enjoy doing? Most of us put at least a little of ourselves on hold when we start dating someone else. It's just the way it works out. Our new person doesn't like to do something that we like to do so we stop doing it while we are with them. Now is the time to do those things. They will bring you peace and allow you to remember the person you used to be and that can really help when you are healing a broken heart from love gone bad.
Another thing you should be doing during this time is to work on the things that you have been meaning to do. Just like the things that we gave up doing when we were part of a couple, there are also things that we were meaning to do but just never got around to. Now is the time to do them. Have you been meaning to take a class, learn a new language, or just rearrange your living room? Now is the time for a new start. Go for it. Try to have some fun. You might not think that you can have any fun quite yet but when you start doing the things you have always wanted to do you might just be surprised at how good you will start to feel.
Finding ways of being happy is the best way I know of for healing a broken heart from love gone bad.
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