We have all been there at one time or another. We are in a relationship, and we think things are going along just fine. But then it happens. The next thing you know is you're looking at the wrong side of a break up. No question, it is a tough thing to have to go through. You're left wondering what happened, and you have to live with the results. There are hurt feelings, but as they say, time heals all wounds. You start to miss what you once had and decide that you want to win your love back. It's not going to be easy, but it can be done.
Before you can move forward on trying to get back together, you have to take an honest look at what you had before. The problem is that we have a tendency to look back with fondness and see things as better than they really were. Try to picture yourself as a disinterested observer. What do you see? Can you see where things went wrong? More importantly, no matter how bad it was, will you be able to do whatever it takes to build a new relationship?
Keep in mind that a lot of other before you have tried to mend broken relationships. They thought they could make it work. Yet, after all of their effort, they simply were not able to stay together, if they were able to get back together at all. However, there have also been those who were able to have a new life together, and one that was far better than the one they knew before. Hopefully you will be one of the success stories. Just remember it will take effort and commitment. For the sake of the rest of this article, we will assume that you have decided you really do want to win your love back, and are willing to give it the effort that entails.
Your next step is to take a close look at your faults; specifically those faults that contributed to your relationship coming to an end. Once you figure out what those are, you need to do what you can to fix them. Remember, you have no power to directly change anybody else except yourself. So, this means you need to do your best to become a better person and learn from your past mistakes.
Once you have this done, you can talk to your ex about how you have changed. However, don't start going into all of the details about how you are going to win them back. If you come on too strong, too quickly, you will only scare them away. Another thing to keep in mind is that actions speak louder than words. So, while you can tell your ex that you have changed, you will come out much further ahead if you can show them that you have changed for the better. As mentioned earlier, trying to win your love back won't always be easy, but it is possible.
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