Many women have been fooled by a guy who has put on a good show, pretended to be very interested in them and as soon as he got them in to bed, he was gone. If you want to be able to tell the difference between a smooth talking fake and the real deal, and how to know Mr Right, keep reading for some helpful tips.
Men like to say that they don't understand women, but the truth is many men have women pegged. They have made it an art form to know just how to act and just what to say to convince the woman that they are really interested. The problem is that it's all a show. They are only acting that way because they want to get her into bed and afterwards they're gone.
That can be truly devastating to a woman who thought she may have found Mr. Right only to discover that he is just another schmuck.
There are many signs that the guy you are dating may not be the person who is claiming to be. Most of them are just common sense, and if you don't ignore your gut instincts you will be fine:
1. If you have a feeling that your would be Mr. Right is a cheat or a liar than he probably is. Trust your instincts. If you've heard stories about how someone is a player, don't ignore them, where there is smoke there is fire. When we ignore our instincts is when we get in trouble.
2. If the guy is interested in you, he will call you... often. If he is interested you will be on his mind all the time, it won't be a chore to talk to you.
3. A guy who is only interested in one thing and who is trying to pretend to be something more than he is, won't work that hard. If you pay attention he will let things slip, he will show his true colors. Like I said above, as long as you don't conveniently ignore the warning signs, you can be just fine.
4. When you are just falling in love, your instincts may be compromised, but your friends instincts won't be. If your friends don't like your new guy, don't just dismiss them. They are probably picking up on something you're just not able to see.
5. Watch carefully how he reacts when things don't go his way. If he gets really mad and has a hard time laughing at himself when he does something dumb, he really isn't going to be a lot of fun to be around.
How does he treat waiters and waitresses? Is he rude and abrasive or is he kind? He will tell you all you need to know, all you need to do is to keep your eyes open and don't ignore the warning signs.
Even though there are men out there who like to lie and pretend to be something they aren't, learning how to know Mr Right isn't that hard, keep your eyes open, trust your instincts and listen to your friends.
imself when he does something dumb, he really isn't going to be a lot of fun to be around.
How does he treat waiters and waitresses? Is he rude and abrasive or is he kind? He will tell you all you need to know, all you need to do is to keep your eyes open and don't ignore the warning signs.
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