You want to get back together with ex. You broke up a month ago and now you wish you hadn't. You know now that she is the one for you and that you made a mistake by breaking up with her. Now you want to know if you can undo that mistake.
How do you fix it? Call her on the phone and ask to meet her for coffee or lunch. If she agrees, pick a quiet place where you can have some privacy. If that is not possible then suggest the two of you go for a walk in the park, take your lunch or coffee with you.
When you have her all to yourself, tell her how sorry you are about the break up and apologize for hurting her. Tell her that you are willing to do whatever it takes to get her back into your life.
Expect some anger from her at this point, she may even cry. Stay strong and do not get angry with her. She needs to feel these emotions and if you stay calm and do not react badly she will see that you are serious about getting back together.
A sincere apology can go a long way to healing hurt feelings. Take some flowers with you to this meeting and look her in the eye when you apologize. Touch her in some small way, too. Your hand on her hand or arm should be enough physical contact to get and keep her attention. Compliment her. Tell her you like the perfume she has on or you like the outfit she is wearing. Make her feel good about herself.
She may not believe you at first. If, after this first meeting, she has not jumped back into your arms and professed her undying love, do not get discouraged. Be persistent when you want to get back together with ex but do not go overboard. There is a fine line between persistence and stalking.
Since your objective here is not to get yourself arrested but to win back the woman of your dreams, you need to tread lightly. Be attentive but do not get creepy. You want her to run toward you not away from you. If you ask her out or say you are going to do something, be where you say are going to be at the time you say you are going to be there. If something comes up and you find you will be late, be considerate and call her. Do not just leave her hanging.
I guess what I'm trying to tell you here is, you need to rebuild the trust and respect you lost when you broke up with her. It may take some time but persistence will pay off. If you truly want to get back together with ex you need to understand that trust and respect has to be earned and even though you lost it in an instant, it will take some effort on your part to get it back.
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