Want to know some cool tricks for getting the boyfriend back? well, there are some things that may just work well for you. Of course, a lot of it depends on what happened between the two of you and how you've handled things since the breakup. If you've been a screaming shrew it's going to take longer. The best thing to do is to get started today.
Give your guy some space. Don't be clingy, whiny, or needy. None of those things are a huge turn on and it's unlikely that if you act like that he's going to be thinking 'Wow, I'm really missing out'. Be you, don't get obsessed with getting him back, instead live your life and figure out how to improve on the person you are. What part did you play in the relationship falling apart? Figure out what you did wrong and than improve on it.
No one is perfect and no one is completely to blame when a relationship falls apart. Figure out how you can improve and what you may have done that contributed to the extinction of your relationship. Then address those issues so if you and your ex do get back together you can make it work this time around.
Even if you and your ex aren't able to make things work, at least you'll be a better person and you'll bring a better person to all the other relationships you'll have. You really can't lose.
I know it may be hard for you to face up to some of your foibles but it is totally necessary. Don't think, like many women do, that you can fix all the problems all by yourself either. For now it's enough for you to fix you but if the two of you do get back together it will have to be a mutual effort. Unless you were with a total saint and you are completely responsible for the problems both of you will have to work on things. But that's something that will come later, for now it's all about you and getting boyfriend back.
Once you've given your guy some space, and had some time to take a deep breath, the next thing you should do is try to find your ex and see if they want to get together. Nothing fancy, don't act like the two of you are going to get back together, you're just getting together as friends.
This meeting can tell you a lot about what your chances of making things work out really are. For example, if the two of you do meet and your ex seems really happy to see you, that's a good sign. It might not turn into anything but it's definitely a good start.
But if your ex spends the whole time talking about his new girlfriend, it's not such a good sign. Again, no matter what happens at least you can walk away knowing that you tried and that you didn't make a fool of yourself. Not only that, but you've spent some time improving the person you are. No matter what happens, these tips will help when it comes to getting the boyfriend back.
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