Ah yes, your wedding day. A day that's supposed to be one of the happiest in your life. The two of you were so happy at first, but then reality set in. You stopped getting along so well, and the arguments seemed to get worse. Or, maybe the problem is that there was no arguing at all. Maybe one of you just didn't care enough to even bother. Whatever the case may be, you are now at the point where you want to know how to stop a divorce. For the record, it won't always be easy, but it can be done if you go about it the right way.
Before you start taking action, you need to be sure a divorce is on the horizon. If you have been served with divorce papers, then you already know the answer. But if it's only a general feeling you have, or one of you blurted out the threat of divorce during a heated argument, then take a closer look before making any assumptions one way or the other.
Okay, so there is no doubt that a divorce is about to happen, what can you do? the next steps depend if it was you or your spouse who initiated it. If it was you, then you have to start doing some damage control. Explain to your spouse why you wanted a divorce, but then follow that up by explaining why that is no longer the case. Your ex may not react the way you expect, but do your best to remain calm as you give your reasons for calling off the divorce.
If it was your spouse, then you have to use different tactics to stop a divorce. You can start by agreeing that things aren't going well. What normally happens is we try to defend ourselves and explain that things really aren't that bad. But if your spouse has asked for a divorce, then they obviously think things are bad. By agreeing with them on that point, you will be able to start a better conversation. A conversation that will put you on the right track to saving your marriage.
Sometimes a few conversations aren't enough. That's okay, it happens. However, you don;t have to give up yet. Do whatever you can to go see a marriage counselor. Don't be too pushy about it, but do your best to get your spouse to agree to it. If they don't want to go, then try to find out why. Don't be judgmental, you're just trying to find out what their objections are. Once you know those, you can put their mind at ease. A lot of people see marriage counselors. Some wait until they have to stop a divorce, and others go throughout the course of their marriage. Either way, they can work wonders in not only keeping your marriage together, but also making it a happier one.
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