Can my wife love me again? I don't know, what did you do? I don't mean to sound flip when you are in pain, but getting someone to forgive and love you again will depend on a lot of factors, not the least of which is what caused the problems in the first place. Getting to the root of the problem has got to be the first step you take.
Trying to get the love back in your marriage might be hard, or impossible, due largely to what happened to kill that love in the first place. How long has the love been dying? For example, if you have been married for some time and you haven't treated your wife very well throughout your marriage, she may not love you anymore, and that may just be that. Love can die.
Think of a garden, if you don't water it and nurture it the only plants you're going to grow are weeds. Your marriage is similar. If you've spent the past several years of your marriage completely oblivious to your wife and her needs and you haven't shown her that you care about her and love her, than the love she felt for you might already be past the point of saving.
If the troubles are a little more recent, and not all your doing, you will usually have a better chance of saving your marriage and rekindling the love the two of you once had. With the economy so difficult right now a lot of families are really feeling the strain of money issues. If that's what's happened to you and your wife you need to slow down and consider what's really important. I know, you've got people calling, you've got food to buy and there is never enough money. But in the long run, this will just be a blip on the screen. Your marriage should be the one thing that you can count on for the rest of your life. Try (even though I know it's hard) to always remember that.
One of the simplest things you can do to win back your wife's affections is to remind her, with actions and not words, of the man she fell in love with in the beginning. It's easy to let life get in the way, we can lose our sense of humor and romance and then everything else starts to fall apart. Try to recapture a little of the magic the two of you used to share. It can be something as simple as a walk together in the local park, just some time together to unplug from all the other crap that may be going on in your world.
There are many reasons why a marriage can fall apart, most of them are silly and can be fairly simple to overcome once you realize what they are. For you men who are asking: can my wife love me again, yes, just make sure you give her a good reason.
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