No matter how desperate you may feel and how hopeless the situation may seem, you can win back man you love dating in most cases. True, not all relationships can be given CPR, and not all relationships should be given a second chance, but in many cases getting back together with the man of your dreams is just a matter of knowing what to do... and what not to do.
Sexist as it may sound, men are driven by ego. Of course, some men are worse than others but for the most part a man likes you to stroke his ego (hey, I said ego!) which is why you have to be careful how you go about the process of reconciling with your ex. If you're not careful all you'll end up doing is giving him a huge ego boost and making a fool of yourself. Many guys would love the idea of having the ex follow them around begging for scraps, especially if she broke up with them, make sure that you don't fall into that trap with him. Even while you are trying to get him back, always keep your dignity intact and if he isn't giving as much as he's getting, move on, it's just a game to him.
Here are a few things that you should try to get him back:
1. First of all, if the relationship has just broken up recently, wait. Don't go trailing after him telling him how much you miss him and love him, especially if he broke up with you. It's best to let him stew for a while until he realizes that he misses you. That's when you can let your feelings be known... not before.
If it's been a while since the breakup and he's had enough time to get to the point where he realizes he misses you, then you can contact him casually and see if he'd like to meet for coffee or lunch as friends. I know I used the dreaded 'F' word, but it's best that you keep everything very low key or you may scare him away. What you're really trying to do in this step is to spend time with him to remind him of all the fun the two of you used to have together and of the fun loving, free spirit he fell in love with when you two first met.
2. While you are waiting for enough time to pass make sure that you don't obsess about him and getting him back. I know this will be tough, but you have to face the fact that things may not work out the way you want. You have to have a Plan B, and it shouldn't be to get revenge on your ex by dating that hot guy you work with.
A good Plan B would be something that you can do no matter what happens between you and your ex. Something that will move you forward in your life and help you accomplish some worthwhile goal. It doesn't matter what it is as long as it meets those two criteria. It can be anything from a new haircut to taking a world cruise, to going back to school. Just as long as it's positive and will move you forward in your life.
We've been kind of conditioned to think that the really good things have to be complicated and hard. That's why many people reading this article may be skeptical and ignore this advice on how to win back man you love dating, don't make that mistake. Just because this advice is simple doesn't mean that it isn't effective too, in most cases it will work like a charm.
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