Trying to get back together with someone following a break up can be a difficult task. You are not alone being in this sad position of losing the one you love and wondering if there is anything that you can do to win back lost love. Perhaps you were the one who ended the relationship on the spur of the moment following a fight, but now that you've had time to think about it you have realized that you made a big mistake. There is no guarantee that you can win back your ex but there are some things that you can do to help increase your chance of success.
Firstly you need to remember that you are your own person and need to learn to live your life on your own. This is often a big mistake that people make when in a relationship is that they give up their own individuality and forget how to enjoy life on their own. To really love someone else you need to love yourself first so if you can enjoy yourself on your own then you are ready to enjoy yourself with someone else.
Next, look back on your relationship and think about what went wrong. What exactly was it that caused the break up? Was it something that happened as a one off situation that you over reacted to or had the relationship been showing signs of trouble for a long time? If you can find what went wrong with the relationship then you can take steps to fix it.
You need to be sure that you want to get back with your ex for the right reasons. Do you really love this person and want to spend the rest of your life with them or do you just like the idea of being in a relationship? There is no point trying to win back lost love if it is just for the sake of being in a relationship, you really need to be in love with the person.
It is possible that your lost love has moved on with their life and if this is so then you may need to be careful in your approach. This doesn't mean that you can't win them back but it might need a different approach. If you approach your ex with their new partner and try to get them back then they may think you're a little crazy. You also shouldn't approach their new partner and make threats or even constantly tell them how she should be with you and not him. It would be best to get your ex on her own and discuss the situation with her and if she has any feelings left for you at all then she should be willing to discuss the situation. If she has no feelings for you anymore and is in love with this new person then you will need to let her go and move on.
People change over time so if this relationship ended quite some time ago then the person you were once with may have changed and not be the same person you were in love with. You may think you want her back and when you get to know her again you may realize that you don't love this person anymore. You will also have changed over time and the two of you may not be a perfect match anymore. It is possible that you could fall in love with each other again so it is worth a try but just remember that you have both changed so things might not be what you expect.
You will need to take time to rekindle the relationship and get to know each other again so don't go rushing into anything. If you are realistic about the situation there is no reason why you can't win back lost love and have a happy future together.
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