If you need help getting your ex-boyfriend back then before you make any rash decisions you need to take some time to sit down and think about what really happened. Did he leave you or did you drive him away? The answer to this question will determine which path you have to take in order to correct this.
When a man leaves a relationship, it is for one of three reasons: he found someone else, he is looking for someone else and doesn’t want to wait until he finds her to leave, or you have done something that has hurt him so much to make him believe that he is no longer wanted.
If he has found someone else, do you really want him back? If he left once, then he doesn’t value the relationship enough to care about you. Chances are extremely high that he would do it again. This is not a healthy relationship. In fact, it is not a relationship: it is an infatuation on your part. He is just along for the ride.
If he left because he wants someone else and he hasn’t even found them yet, this is a clear indication of two things. It is over between the two of you, and he isn’t ready to settle down with just one person. Not even having someone else lined up means he might not want to be tied to one person, which is also cause to run.
The last scenario is the best option because it means that he cares for you. If a guy leaves because he was hurt by you then he still cares. That means there is a chance that he will come back- if you make amends in the right way.
You need to immediately contact him to talk, but not in person: just over the phone. And no emails or texts either. He needs to hear the sincerity in your voice.
Remain calm and ask him to consider giving you another chance. Tell him that the separation has opened your eyes to realize that being without him hurts too much. The relationship is worth working on and you are ready to commit whatever it takes to prove it to him. Then let him talk. Ask him what it will take to bring you back together. The more he talks, the better chance you have of getting your ex-boyfriend back.
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