There are ways to get your ex back if you go about it the right way. But before any steps are taken the man needs to sit down and evaluate exactly what happened.
True relationships don’t just dissolve so there has to be something that happened to cause the split. This is the time to figure out what that was. It could have been one issue or it could be the end result of many different little things that compiled together to make a case.
Once you have a reason there will be a person who was responsible. If it is due to something that the woman did, then the man should first assess how solid the relationship was to begin with. If it were a major deal then he would automatically know what happened. Not knowing means he was either not in tuned and missed clues that something was wrong, or he did not pay enough attention.
Sometimes clues are present and they are missed. If they were missed because he was not paying attention he needs to think about why he wasn’t paying attention. Was the relationship becoming stale? If they were missed due to the fact that they were so minute that anyone would miss them then maybe she overreacted. In this instance the man should think back to while they were together. Did she have a tendency to overreact? If not, she might be hiding something.
Often, women and men will overreact to something that would generally be considered insignificant so that they can use it as an excuse to justify an action. In this case, it will be blatantly obvious. For someone who has been in a relationship for awhile they will know enough about the other person to determine what would typically set them off and what would be considered behavior that was out of the ordinary. If this is out of character for her, then the man needs to dig deeper.
This doesn’t mean that she needs to be followed: however, it is a good time to give her some distance and let her sort things out. Out of all of the ways to get the ex back, stalking has never been a good option. Give her time and ease back into contact. If she has suddenly moved on it will be apparent from how she responds to the cooling off period.
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