There is so much relationship advice online it would take someone years to get through it all. Although with a little research you should be able to narrow it all down to find just exactly what you need help with.
For instance, are you looking to find someone to date and spend time with? If you are you could always try a dating site or two. Just make sure they are reputable sites. Maybe try some of the ones that you have heard of already.
If you are honest about the information you put in your profile on these sites they should be able to match you up with someone who has the same interests as you do so you will at least have some things to talk about when you set up a first date. In any relationship it is important to start of on the right foot.
When looking for relationship advice online, one major thing you will find is advice about being confident and secure in who you are before you try to have a relationship. If you come into a relationship with a lot of baggage and have many insecurities your relationship will suffer. Maybe not right at the beginning but those insecurities will rear their ugly heads at some point and start to eat away at the relationship.
So, what does this mean? This means you should do what you need to do to get rid of the insecurities you have. This may mean talking to someone who can help, like a counselor. No one ever has the perfect parents and truthfully, our parents can mess us up pretty badly sometimes. So much so that any type of personal relationships we try to have in our adult lives just do not, or cannot, work out for the best.
You also cannot look to someone else to 'make' you happy. Happiness comes from within and if you do not start a relationship happy then after the initial 'honeymoon period' is over and the relationship settles into some type of a routine that unhappiness will be very apparent and you will do all you can to sabotage your new relationship because somewhere down deep inside you really feel like you do not deserve anything good in your life.
You may not even know you are doing it but the evidence that you are, in part, will be like taking the little things that should really not ever get in the way in your relationship and making them huge fights that put you at odds with your mate.
If you put some energy into bettering yourself before you enter into your next relationship then, believe it or not, you will find that the self-confidence you exude will not only attract more members of the opposite sex, it will attract those who are also confident in themselves.
So find a good counselor and research some relationship advice online to become secure in who you are and where you are going in this life before trying to have a relationship with someone else. Be careful here to because there is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Do not cross that line, it is very easy to do and arrogance is not attractive at all.
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