It does not have to be all that hard to get somebody back after they have walked out on you. Furthermore, it doesn't make all that much difference if they left you three days ago or three months ago, the principles of how to get someone back remain the same. The main thing is for you to be willing to do whatever it takes to get them back and to stay committed to it.
Before you do anything else, you will have to spend some time and do some soul searching to find out what went wrong, and what you did that contributed to your break up. The purpose of this is not to place blame on each other for different things. Instead it's meant to give you a chance to look at things more logically and to find out what you may need to apologize for.
You are human. Your is human. That means both of you made mistakes, and a lot of them. Of course you don't want to apologize about every tiny detail. If you do that you may come across as being sarcastic or obsessed; neither of which will help you to get someone back. A better approach is to be selective with what you apologize for.
So what are some of the things you should be apologetic about? There are two main categories. The first are those things you did wrong that hurt your ex in any way, including emotionally. The second are those things you did that led to your relationship coming to an end. Granted, there may be other things you'll need to say you're sorry for, but these are the biggest.
Saying you're sorry isn't always easy. You are going to have to swallow your pride, but as long as you focus on getting someone back, it will be easier. When it comes to apologizing, how you say it is more important than what you say. You will have to specific, and you will have to be sincere. That's why it's so important to take the time to do some soul searching.
It would be great if you could just apologize and be done with it, but that's not the way it works. You not only have to say you're sorry in the right way, but you also have to show that you are sorry. The only real way to show you're sorry is to not make the same mistakes again. This isn't always easy, but promise to do your best.
At the same time, you have to be willing to accept any apologies your ex offers to you (though your apologizing is not dependent on whether or not they choose to apologize to you). Once they apologize, it's up to you to accept their apology and forgive them. Remember, by knowing how to apologize, you can get your ex back. The key is to be honest, specific and sincere. That way you will get back together and for good.
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