No one likes to be all alone, especially during the holiday season. This time of year can be really tough to be one your own. That may be why so many people want advice on how to get back with ex.
Here are some things you need to know:
1. It's never too late to get back with an ex. Whether a lot of time has gone by or a little time has gone by it may still be possible to reestablish a connection with your ex.
2. The reason for the break up will go a long way in determining how best to approach your ex for a reconciliation. For example, if you cheated on your ex, you are going to have a very, long, hard uphill climb ahead of you.
It's just not that easy to rebuild trust between two people. Your betrayal hurt them deeply and they are going to be extremely reluctant to risk getting hurt like that again. They will think that they trusted you before and you betrayed that trust, why would they be dumb enough to trust you again?
If the reason for the break up was not quite so traumatic as betrayal, your path will likely be a little smoother and easier.
3. If the break up is pretty recent your first move is to leave your ex alone. I know this may sound like unusual advice, but it's important to you both to have some breathing room.
This can benefit you in a couple of ways. For one thing, you need a chance to catch your breath and think clearly. If your ex is the one who broke up with you, you are likely to be too emotional to talk to them. If you try to talk to them too soon, you may actually make things worse and ruin any chance you may have had at getting them back.
And the other reason it is a good idea to let a little time go by is that you can spend some time with you. Make any changes that you should make with yourself. Concentrate on making yourself the best version of you that you can be. They will really be impressed when you do see them again.
4. Since you can't really know what is in your exes heart, there is always a chance that they miss you as much as you miss them. On the other hand, there is also a chance that they really have gotten over you and don't want to get back together. That is something that you have to be willing to face.
If, despite your best efforts, they simply do not want to get back together, you have got to be prepared to move on with dignity. Crying, threatening, stalking are not going to do either one of you any good. If you have tried but they just don't want to get back together, move on with your dignity intact and your head held high.
I hope that you can find a way to reconnect with your ex. It matters what you do as much as what you do not do when you are learning how to get back with ex, keep that in mind at all times.
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