Learning the tricks on how to win an ex back might be tougher than you think. No, it's not impossible. As a matter of fact it's probably more achievable than you may realize. The real problem is that in order to make things work this time around you may need to face someone that can really be difficult to face, and that someone is you.
There are issues in any relationship. Some issues are big and some are small. Sometimes the issues are fairly evenly divided between the two partners and even though it seems like only one person is to blame for the whole mess it really does take two to tango. You both need to work on things together.
In order to learn how to win an ex back you have to be willing to face whatever issues you brought to the relationship, and that's not always fun to do. If you're strong enough and determined enough to get them back then you'll find the strength you need to face what you need to face.
One thing to look out for though, do not make the mistake of thinking that just because you make changes everything will be great for the two of you. It might be if you were 100% at fault with everything that went wrong and your ex was perfect, but of course, we both know that is not the case. You can't change your ex, only they can change themselves but if they are not willing to fix themselves the way you are fixing yourself, it might be all for naught.
So, how do you go about making changes? Well, you figure out your issues and if you are completely honest with yourself you can figure out why you have the issues you have.
For example, if you get jealous easily, it could mean that you have either had someone cheat on you or you just do not feel worthy of love. If you do not feel like you are worthy, it is only natural that on some level you would think that he has made a big mistake loving you and that sooner or later he will realize his mistake and leave you.
So you try to sabotage the relationship and make them leave you. Sounds stupid, I know, but it usually is a subconscious thing and you really do not know that you are doing it until someone points it out to you.
This may not apply to you, but if deep down that's how you feel then that is how you are going to react. This could be the big problem why you can't seem to stay in a relationship. The best thing you can do for yourself is to find someone who can help you work through all of this. Do not be afraid of the idea of working with a therapist. Just find one that you like, feel comfortable with, trust and who can point you in the right direction.
It is really not all that hard learning how to win an ex back. It will take time and persistence on your part and if you can find the wherewithall to see it through you will be able to have great relationships for the rest of your life.
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