If you are in a marriage that isn't going all that well, or you have recently been divorced or separated, then you may be asking yourself, "will my wife ever love me again?" If so, then you can take some small comfort in knowing that you are not the only one. Most marriages start off with high hopes, then over time start to lose their appeal. Regardless of your situation, you should know that it isn't always easy to rekindle lost love, but it is possible in the vast majority of cases. However, you must have a "whatever it takes" attitude if you want to succeed.
Before you start taking steps to win back love, you have to do something else first. You have to make 100% sure that your wife has really fallen out of love with you. Ask yourself, "how do I know she doesn't love me anymore?" What evidence do you see? Is it possible it could be a sign of something else? Remember, people change, and that applies to both of you. In fact, she may still love you just as much as ever, but it's you who has changed. Either way, let's continue to assume that she has stopped loving you for the time being.
The good news is that there are plenty of things you can do to get her to love you again. Now, there aren't any guarantees in life, except one. If you don't do anything, then nothing will happen. So, it's up to you to follow through and take action. The first thing you have to do is realize that none of this happened overnight, though it may seem like it did. It usually starts when two people stop communicating with each other. Therefore, your main course of action will be to reopen those lines of communication.
Of course you still need to use common sense. For example, if your wife is telling you that she needs more time and space for herself, that she has to think and wants to be left alone for a while, then that's not a good time to try to force her to communicate with you. Also, just because she wants some time alone isn't a sign she doesn't love you. Perhaps the stress of your strained marriage is getting to her too, and she wants to resolve some things. It won't be easy, but give her as much time as she needs, without pressuring her to talk. She will let you know when she's ready.
You will get a much better answer to the question of "will my wife ever love me again?" if you give her the chance to come to terms with her own feelings first. Once that happens, you can move on to talking to each other about what went wrong, how to fix it, and how to rebuild a happier future together. Again, you have to be willing to do whatever it takes, but it will be worth it in the long run.
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