Being in love is a wonderful thing. But not being sure if your boyfriend loves you makes things really tricky. Yes, there are times you are convinced that he loves you, but then there are times when you're not so sure. It's enough to drive you nuts! See, if he does indeed have feelings for you, then you're ready to commit to him and stay with him forever. On the other hand, if he doesn't really care for you deep down, then why waste your time investing in a one-sided relationship? At the very least, you can try to get him to love you if his feelings aren't all that strong for you at this time.
All of this can be really confusing, and that only makes it harder. Fortunately, there are some signs you look for to tell if your boyfriend really loves you or not.
Buying gifts. If he surprises you with random gifts, then that's a good sign. It may be a somewhat superficial way of expressing love, but a lot of guys have a hard time expressing it any other way. So, accept his gifts graciously and know that it's his way of showing you that he cares for you.
Listening. It's great to have somebody that you can really talk to. Perhaps your boyfriend just has awesome communication skills and has always been a good listener. Either way, if he is listening to you then it shows that he loves you enough to care about what you have to say.
He knows you. We're not talking about him knowing your name or being able to recognize you in a crowd. One sign that your boyfriend really loves you is if he knows a lot of the details of your life. What was your nickname in grade school? Did you have childhood pets? Where did you grow up? What are favorite and least favorite foods? What makes you sad? Happy? Angry? What do you like to do? And the list goes on and on. Generally speaking, the more he knows, the more he cares.
He treats you well. If your boyfriend gives you the occasional massage, cooks you dinner, willingly goes shopping with you, or does anything else just to make you feel good, then that's a very strong sign that he cares for you.
Planning a future. A guy is usually only going to talk about the future if he loves you. Or, more specifically, your future together. If he's talking about having a family someday, buying a house, or maybe even looking ahead to where the two of you will retire, then you can take that as a sure sign that your boy really loves you.
While all of these are good signs, they are just signs. Maybe he already does one or two of these things, or maybe none at all. He can still love you either way, he just may have a different way of expressing that love. However, the more of them that describe your boyfriend, the better.
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