Some people have been burned by infidelity before and since they have had so many bad experiences they may mistakenly think that relationships and cheating go hand in hand. For the record, nothing could be further from the truth. There are many people who have resisted temptation and have never cheated on their partner. If you have a skewed idea of what a relationship should be like because of some past experiences, read on.
Many people believe that whether we like it or not, everything that happens in our life is a direct result of the choices and decisions we make. Now please note, that does not mean that when things to wrong it's your fault, it just means that often one thing leads to another and the choices and decisions you have made will help determine where things go.
So, if you continually have bad relationships then you have to determine what you are doing that encourages you to settle for people who are so flawed that they can't make a full commitment to you. What "vibes" are you putting out that attracts the wrong type of person to you?
So instead of repeating the same old habits and behavior and getting the same old results why not figure out what you do to attract the wrong person? Sometimes we unconsciously sabotage ourselves because we don't really believe that things will work out or because we don't really feel like we are deserving of happiness.
If you find that this pattern describes you than you really should take a little time and get some counseling so you can change your behavior and your expectations. You do not have to settle for being in a relationship with someone who you can't count on or who won't respect and love you. You deserve better.
You don't have to settle for an abusive relationship with someone who you can't trust. Cheating does not, and should not, be a part of a relationship... period.
A good therapist can work with you and help you determine why you settle for self destructive behavior. Once you find the root cause of your issues you can find a way to work on them and move past them.
It's never easy for anyone to admit they have problems and need some help, but for anyone who seems to always attract the wrong kind of person and who continually gets involved with people who only end up letting them down, they can benefit from some soul searching and some lifestyle changes.
A counselor can help you with that.
You need someone who can help steer you in the right direction and help you see things that you may be too close to see on your own. You want a non judgmental person by your side to help you face, and change, your issues so you can find happiness.
No matter who you are and no matter what your past relationships have been like, you can have a great, loving and respectful relationship. Relationships and cheating do not have to go together, you can break the cycle.
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