Have you ever been in a relationship where you thought it was going in one direction but the other person thought it was going in another? There are many diffrent types of relationship and it can cause a lot of pain if the two people in the relationship have different ideas of what the relationship really is, or should be.
It can be a really tough thing to make sure you are both on the same page when it comes to which of the different types of relationship you each want to have. For example, if you are looking for someone to marry and want to start dating "seriously" when should you let the person you just started dating know that?
Most of us would be very hesitant to bring it up too early in the relationship because we don't want to sound desperate or like some sort of stalker. But, on the other hand, why would you want to spend months in a relationship with someone who has absolutely no interest in getting married anytime soon? It would be hard for both of you if you got in too deep only to discover that you each had different ideas of what the relationship was really all about.
One good way to avoid this, without having to actually worry about finding the right time to talk about it, would be to join an online dating site. Many of these sties are geared to a certain type of dating only so everyone on there has a pretty good idea of what the other is looking for.
Even if the dating site you choose to join isn't catering to just one type of relationship, they will usually allow you to personalize your profile and include that type of information. So again, whoever you meet will know ahead of time what you are looking for whether it is just casual dating or the hope of finding something more serious.
Of course, you can meet people the old fashioned way too, you can have your friends set you up. This too may be a good way to ensure that the person you meet is looking for the same type of relationship you are. Hopefully your friends will only set you up with people who are at the same place you are.
Failing all that, when is the best time to let the person you are dating know what type of relationship you really want? Well, I would have to say that that would depend to a large degree on the maturity level of the people involved. For example, if you are dating someone who is mature and who you can talk openly with, it should be pretty easy for you to accurately explain what you are looking for without coming on too strong.
If you are careful of how you lay things out it should be able to be done in a non threatening way for the other person, even if they want something different. That is the best advice I can give you on how to define all the diffrent types of relationship and which one you want.
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