Ending a relaionship is one of the most difficult things you can do. You are in that relationship because at one point you genuinely cared for your partner, and you probably still do. But just because you care for them does not mean you are meant to be with them.
People are different and your chemistry can change. You may have been a good couple at one point but now that might have changed. It likely is not anyones fault, that is just how life goes.
So taking that into consideration you probably do not want to hurt your partners feelings. Causing pain is not something most people want to do, especially to those they care about. That is why it is important to break off a relationship gracefully so that neither parter is left with a deep emotional wound.
There are a lot of things you can do to lessen the blow when you finally break off the relationship. These steps are important because if you mishandle the breakup it could cause much grief for both you and your partner.
That grief can turn to guilt which can cause you to remain in the relationship. You would not be the first person to remain in a relationship because you would feel guilty about ending it and hurting your partners feelings. You must not give into this guilt because if you do it will lead to resentment and cause more problems down the road.
When ending a relaionship you need to do so with dignity and respect for your partner. A lot of people will just send them an email or phone call and then run off, all this does is deeply hurt your partner who feels blind sided and used.
You need to show your partner that you do care about them, but that the relationship just is not going to work. Leaving them hanging like an old towel just causes them immense emotional pain.
It is for that very reason that you should break up with them in person. While this can be extremely difficult, it is important as it shows your partner you still respect them. Doing it in person allows them to judge your body language and look you in the eye.
It tells conveys your message with a certainty to it while still showing them they are your equal. But you have to handle this delicately. You need to look them square in the eye and make sure your body language conveys your feelings, but tells them that is final.
Say your piece and then make sure they know there is no room for debate. Make sure not to give them false signals either. You do not want to be mean but also do not be overly nice. If you show too much emotion you might make them think there is still hope for getting back together.
All that does is screw with their mind and give them false hope which will make it even harder on them. You need to make sure your message is clear and concise, the relationship is over and that it is best you both move on with your lives.
6 tips to help your ex to fall back in love with you
How to get Your Wife Back After a Breakup or Divorce
No comments:
Post a Comment